If you’re a grown man that’s talking about other grown men, you’re acting like grown child in a man’s body. Men should be focused on themselves, and just live their every day life. If you’re thinking about other men, their personal lives, their decisions, their thoughts, that’s a personal problem rooted in insecurity and more critically, strength.
Maybe this is a byproduct of low testosterone?
The lower the testosterone and the less physical strength a man feels, the more they are inclined to behave through reputation destruction or gossiping? The stronger the man, the more they are focused on themselves. The weaker the man, the more curious they are about other men.